It’s very easy to see things from the outside looking in and apply our own life lessons to someone else’s situation.  You know what it’s like … you talk to someone with a health challenge and you know just who they should see or what they should take because you’ve been through it.  You might observe someone struggling with a work or personal issue and you know exactly what they should be doing and how they should be dealing with that situation.  Have you offered your advice in that way before?  Have you ever had it rejected?  Yeah – me too.